In first night after marriage, How can a guy judge whether his wife is a virgin or not?

vignesh r - 2009-01-02 07:15:06 - Men's Health

Apart from asking his wife, Can he judge while having sex for the first time? What are the signs that can tell him that his wife is a virgin or not

Best Answer:

The key is honesty. Once you are married it is highly important to be able to communicate on any subject. If virginity is that important than you and your wife should be able to talk about it without any judgment or blaming or embarrassment That said here are some things that can help you otherwise... The hymen has historically been a marker of a woman's virginity. The belief that since the hymen blocked the vaginal opening, it should remain intact as long as a woman did not have sexual intercourse was widely propagated, especially in cultures where a woman's virginity was highly valued. If an unmarried woman's hymen was found to be separated, grave consequences could result, depending on each culture's customs. In some Australian tribes it is the custom for a specially appointed older woman to perforate the hymen of a bride one week before her marriage. If it is found that the hymen has already separated from the vaginal walls prior to this ritual, the woman is subject to public humiliation, torture, and sometimes death. But it is scientific fact that the hymen can be separated for reasons quite unconnected to sexual intercourse. It can separate when the body is stretched strenuously, as in athletics; it can be separated by inserting a tampon during menstruation or through masturbation; and sometimes it is separated for no apparent reason. A separated hymen is not an indication of having had intercourse, nor can it prove a loss of virginity. In fact, some women must have their hymen surgically removed before the birth of their first child because it is so flexible or small that it remains intact during intercourse. When the hymen is separated, whether during first intercourse or at some other time, there may be some slight bleeding and a little pain. Both the bleeding and the pain are quite normal and both usually stop after a short time. Some women experience no discomfort at all during this process that is commonly referred to as "losing your cherry". It is important to remember that a woman can become pregnant even if her hymen is intact and no penis has entered her vagina. If sperm comes in contact with the labia or general vaginal area, it can move through the opening in the vagina and possibly lead to a pregnancy. An intact hymen should not be considered a form of birth control. Hope this helps!.

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When you have sex, if she still has her hymen (the skin seal of the vagina) it means she's a virgin, so her first time might hurt her a little bit, and she may bleed but it's normal. If her hymen is broken, then she has had sex before, or it may have come out in an extremely heavy period. That's about it..

A man cannot tell for sure. Women are different in that department. Some may say it is "tight" and others might not be tight but are truly a virgin. Inexperience in sex due to not having it. She bleeds from her hymen breaking.

It's hard to say, because even if a female is a virgin, there are times when the hymen won't tear and bleed. Females have a hole(s) there naturally, and the size will vary, so it all depends. Also, if she's been masturbating beforehand, it could make it even harder to distinguish.

If a man CAN tell he has no right to want his wife to be.

She won't be a virgin. She'll have seen more cock than Bernard Matthews breeding grounds!

hard to say because if she has masturbated before then she might have broken her hymen then, also if she has already told you she is a virgin you should trust her and not be asking this question

A guy will know if she is virgin if the entrance is too tight and you will know by her reaction.She feels afraid and she will not lead.Sometimes there will be blood after the intercourse but not everybody experience it.When I losed my virginity i did not bleed because he is too kind to me.But it hurts a lot that i don't want to do it again.Instinct,you will know it.Goodluck!!!

The key is honesty. Once you are married it is highly important to be able to communicate on any subject. If virginity is that important than you and your wife should be able to talk about it without any judgment or blaming or embarrassment That said here are some things that can help you otherwise... The hymen has historically been a marker of a woman's virginity. The belief that since the hymen blocked the vaginal opening, it should remain intact as long as a woman did not have sexual intercourse was widely propagated, especially in cultures where a woman's virginity was highly valued. If an unmarried woman's hymen was found to be separated, grave consequences could result, depending on each culture's customs. In some Australian tribes it is the custom for a specially appointed older woman to perforate the hymen of a bride one week before her marriage. If it is found that the hymen has already separated from the vaginal walls prior to this ritual, the woman is subject to public humiliation, torture, and sometimes death. But it is scientific fact that the hymen can be separated for reasons quite unconnected to sexual intercourse. It can separate when the body is stretched strenuously, as in athletics; it can be separated by inserting a tampon during menstruation or through masturbation; and sometimes it is separated for no apparent reason. A separated hymen is not an indication of having had intercourse, nor can it prove a loss of virginity. In fact, some women must have their hymen surgically removed before the birth of their first child because it is so flexible or small that it remains intact during intercourse. When the hymen is separated, whether during first intercourse or at some other time, there may be some slight bleeding and a little pain. Both the bleeding and the pain are quite normal and both usually stop after a short time. Some women experience no discomfort at all during this process that is commonly referred to as "losing your cherry". It is important to remember that a woman can become pregnant even if her hymen is intact and no penis has entered her vagina. If sperm comes in contact with the labia or general vaginal area, it can move through the opening in the vagina and possibly lead to a pregnancy. An intact hymen should not be considered a form of birth control. Hope this helps!.

Blood stains on the sheets are a definite sign that she was a virgin Chaos

leave the light on she will wince.

There are no ways to definitely say she isn't a virgin, but there are ways to tell that she is a virgin. If her hymen is intact she definitely is a virgin, however, if her hymen is broken it does not mean she is not a virgin, she could have lost it due to an injury, sports, horseback riding or a heavy flow. Also, if you are about to marry her and she is a virgin still, you are doing it wrong.

Counting womens' virginity in this Era is an utter blurr.... First you stop being a ' Doubting Thomas". It's not the sexual relationship that it matters for a lovely, long lsating raltionship. It's LOVE. Love your wife truly make her feel the warmth of your affection for her.

It's all about the hymen but the hymen can be broke by other things, e.g horse riding, gymnastics etc.

Simple if her hymen is intact, it will be a barrier that will have to be broken or torn in order to consumate the marriage. Not sure why it is really all that important to be the first guy to have sex with a girl. I'd prefer experienced over a novice.

Before having sex with her, explore her vagina with your finger. Then you will know.

Hey vignesh Just open and see it that the hymen is there or not.If its not there. Ask her where and when she has broken or torn the hymen.you will definitely know or start like nana patekar does in Agni sakhshi.

Does it matter?

Have faith on your wife. its good for health and peaceful family